Personal JOurneys

I was born in Michigan in the US, but I've been living in Austin, Texas for the past 25 years. I arrived in Belgium May, 2025. It's been a dream of mine to move back to Europe (I earned my master's degree, or doctorandus as it was called back then, at the University of Amsterdam in 1999) and finally the stars aligned to make it possible. 

I moved to Belgium, and Bruges specifically, so that I could conduct research and write my second novel, which is set in 15th century Bruges. 

I work for an independent classical radio station based in Austin, KMFA Classical 89.5. (www.kmfa.org) During the pandemic we learned that radio can be done (and done well!) 100% remotely, so I asked my bosses if they'd entertain the idea of me working from Belgium.

To my delight, they said yes! I have a daily airshift (3-7 pm local time Monday through Friday), and I also program my shift along with several others. In addition, I produce and host a weekly show called Early Music Now, which is syndicated and heard on dozens of stations all over the US. I hear from listeners as far away as Vermont and Washington State, and once I caught my own show while channel-surfing during a road trip through Oklahoma, which was very fun! The show focuses on music of the Middle Ages, Renaissance, and early Baroque, from approximately the year 1000 A.D. to 1700. 

That's another reason I was so keen to live in Belgium. There's a thriving early music scene here, and historically, Belgium and northern France were fertile fields for musical talent. For about 200 years, roughly between 1400-1600, this region produced almost every great composer on record. Singers and composers were exported from this tiny geographic area all over Europe, shaping musical tastes at courts and cathedrals from Spain to Italy to Central Europe. In Italy they had their own nickname: Oltremontani, "those who come from over the mountains", and in Spain Emperor Charles V's famous choir was called Capilla Flamenca. 

Two mottos that inspire me

I've always loved the Dutch saying "Nee heb je, ja kun je krijgen." There's no direct translation, but in English we say "Nothing ventured, nothing gained" which reflects the spirit of the Dutch saying. 

Another motto I love originated right here in Bruges: Plus est en vous- there is more in you. It was the personal motto of Louis de Gruuthuse, a nobleman, councillor, and arts patron from 15th century Bruges. His palatial home is now a museum, and you can see his inspiring motto all over the place, including on the frame of an original portrait from the 15th century. 'Plus est en vous' reminds me that as human beings we're never finished, there's always more growing, learning, and evolving to do. That may not be what Louis had in mind, but that's how I choose to interpret it. ;-) 

Past work experience or life inspiration

At age 20 I left the US to study abroad in the Netherlands, and the seven years I lived there were hugely influential, and shaped who I became as a person. Many aspects of life in Europe make much more sense to me than the stereotypical 'American way of life', with its urban sprawl and reliance on the automobile. You get to a certain age and start to take stock of your life, and after a couple of decades of driving everywhere I decided that I didn't want to sit in traffic anymore if I didn't need to! I'm now very happy to walk and ride my bike, or take public transportation. 

Pathway from studying to working: I studied musicology at the University of Amsterdam, which is music studied from a research-based, academic perspective rather than composition or performance. After briefly considering a career in academia, I instead pivoted and opted for a career in classical radio. Radio is still a 'gateway experience' for many people, a low-pressure way to discover the riches of classical music. I love being a part of that voyage of discovery, and it helps to remember that no matter how many times I've heard a piece of music, someone else could be hearing that piece for the very first time and falling in love with it.

Company support

KMFA has been very supportive during this time, giving me the freedom to follow a dream, and working with the seven-hour time difference! I feel like the move has affected my announcing in a positive away also; helping me to look at things through fresh eyes, while encouraging me to maintain links with Austin so I still sound local. 

Living in Belgium

I really love it here. The people are friendly and helpful, travel is so convenient, and the connection to the past is a vital part of what makes Bruges so special. I'm writing about the 15th century, and trust me, there is almost nothing about our lives that anyone from the 15th century would recognize! But thanks to the splendid art of Van Eyck, Memling, Gerard David and others that is right in my 'back yard', churches like the OLV Kerk and Sint Salvator, and the handful of other 15th century buildings that still exist, I can at least glimpse their world. Along with thorough research and plenty of imagination, I do my best to recreate that world on the page for my readers. 

I read a beautiful quote by the Buddhist monk, teacher, and poet Thich Nhat Hanh. He told a story about an event that made an impression on him, when he connected with people from the past 'in space but not in time'. That's how I feel every time I hit the streets of Bruges, and it's magical. 

I am originally from India. I have been living in Belgium for 10 years. I moved to Belgium for better career opportunities and to challenge myself in an international environment. I am a senior software engineer at Microsoft, working on large-scale, secure software systems that support millions of users, including AI-driven solutions in healthcare.

“Growth begins when you choose courage over comfort.”

Early inspirations & human values

My journey with technology began in India, shaped by a family that valued kindness, curiosity, and hard work. I was always fascinated by how software could help people, even in small ways, and that purpose kept guiding me forward. As I grew into engineering, I realized I wanted to work in a place where diverse cultures and ideas meet. That desire pushed me beyond my comfort zone and eventually toward an international career. Even today, no matter how complex the problems get, I remain grounded and empathetic, being human first. Kindness, respect, and resilience matter deeply to me. These values became the foundation for everything I pursued professionally. 

Moving to Belgium with my family

Ten years ago, my wife and I moved to Belgium with hope and ambition, unaware of how much it would shape our lives. The early years were a mix of excitement and quiet challenges, new culture, cold weather, and the difficulty of rebuilding a social circle from scratch. I missed India’s festivals, conversations, and familiar energy more than I expected. But slowly, resilience took over, and Belgium began to feel like a place where we could build something meaningful. Over time, we welcomed two children, which completely changed our journey. Watching them grow here made me appreciate the stability and security this country offers. Belgium didn’t just give us a home; it gave us a new beginning. It became a place where our family truly belongs.

Professional growth & personal strength

My career in Belgium has challenged me in ways that have helped me grow, both technically and personally. Joining Microsoft pushed me to think bigger, take responsibility, and collaborate across cultures. I work on large-scale, secure systems, including AI-driven solutions in healthcare, with an impact reaching millions. The work is demanding, but it’s also meaningful. Through strict deadlines, complex problems, and steep learning curves, I learned the value of resilience. I also discovered that kindness and teamwork matter just as much as technical skill. These lessons shaped my leadership style and strengthened my confidence. Belgium played a significant role by giving me opportunities I once only hoped for.

Cultural differences & adaptation

Working in Belgium introduced me to a different pace and mindset. The focus on structure, clear communication, and work-life balance was very different from the fast-paced culture I grew up in. At first, the quietness felt strange, but over time, I began to appreciate its stability. I adapted by listening more, planning better, and valuing long-term thinking. At the same time, I brought my own strengths, warmth, perseverance, and a constant desire to learn. This blend of cultures enriched my professional life and relationships. It taught me patience and broadened my perspective. These differences are one of the most significant gifts of working internationally.

Belgium as home & What it gave me

Belgium has given me far more than a career; it has shaped my family and my identity. It gave us a safe, stable place to raise our children and build our future. It taught me resilience through challenges and gratitude through everyday moments. I still miss India, the food, the festivals, the warmth, but Belgium brought its own comfort into my life. The quiet streets, the balance, and the sense of security slowly became familiar. Today, when I see my kids speak the local languages and adapt so naturally, I realize how deeply this country has become part of us. Belgium didn’t just host us; it helped us grow. For that, I remain truly grateful.

I am an ethnic Korean born and raised in Russia. From an early age I lived between cultures and often felt like I did not fully belong anywhere.

Identity-searching

Over the years I lived in Beijing and Hong Kong, and tried to settle in Saint Petersburg. I also spent time in Seoul hoping that there, among "my own people", I would finally feel at home. But even there I felt like a stranger. Over time I realized that identity is not a final destination but an ongoing search. Belonging is not simply about where you come from; it is something fluid and evolving, shaped by experiences and self-reflection.

Foundation & contribution

The Russian language became my foundation and a way to stay connected to myself. That is why I chose to become a teacher. Today I help bilingual children preserve their language and find confidence in who they are even as they grow up in different cultural contexts.

Connection through IHWF

For the past five years I have been living in Bruges. Here, through the IHWF, I finally felt something I had long been searching for. I found a group of people who understand what it means to come from different cultures. Surrounded by people from all over the world with their own complex stories and experiences I no longer feel the need to explain myself. Here I am simply accepted.

Originally from Hungary, with a background in business management, I combine my interest in international communities with practical skills in organization, communication, and project support. Over the past years, I have participated in exchange programs in the USA, Czechia, Romania, and Belgium. My journey in West Flanders began in Kortrijk, where I quickly fell in love with the region's international spirit and everyday charm.

I have always been curious about different cultures and loved making international connections. Living in different countries also taught me how powerful human connection can be. I can truly understand how other internationals feel when they come to our events. Every culture has its own rhythm and own stories to tell. Listening these stories and sharing my own have really changed the way I see the world. 

I am proud to be a part of a team that helps others feel at home in the same way I once did. It has made me feel like I am giving something back to a place that gave me so much.

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Alexandra Tokoutsi is 30 years old and comes from Greece. She moved to Belgium with her husband, who came here for work, and she also found a job for herself. She is currently working as a technical design engineer at Logi-technic.

"I have been living in Belgium since November 2022. Since it is a member state of the European Union, I didn’t have to go through an extensive procedure to move here. When I arrived, I just had to apply for a Belgian identity card and open a bank account. I think that only took about a month. The recruitment agency that found the job for me, CTRL-f, helped me a lot with that.

It only took 2 months to find a new job here. In Greece, I had the same position. A lot depends on the sector you work in. For me, as an industrial design engineer, it wasn’t difficult to find a job, either in Greece or in Belgium.

Dutch is definitely a barrier, as I haven’t mastered it yet. I also find it challenging to connect with the local culture, although my colleagues in my current company do their best to make me feel part of the team. Of course, I miss my family, the weather, and the food."

I came here mainly for economic reasons.
Life in Poland is not always easy. In big cities, the minimum income is around 750 euros net, while the rent for a one-bedroom apartment is 650 euros. Engineers with some experience earn between 1,250 and 1,800 euros. In Belgium, I’m better off.

I have a creative background as a graphic designer, but here I truly contribute to people's lives. Nipro, headquartered in Japan, is a world leader in kidney care. At Nipro Digital Technologies Europe, we develop process-driven dialysis software called Nephro Flow Product Suite. It offers a complete range of modules that can be configured to meet the increasing digital needs of each dialysis department. My grandmother passed away from kidney failure; she was unable to receive dialysis. This job gives me a lot of fulfillment.

I appreciate that Nipro is an international work environment, as I find interacting with people from different backgrounds incredibly enriching. I see myself as a global citizen. Having moved so many times, I have noticed that I can integrate into new places quite easily. I always learn the language right away to connect with the people. I focus on the positive aspects of a country and look for similarities rather than differences.

I have always been a fan of Belgians, but since the war in Ukraine broke out, I truly feel love for them. My father and his wife were still in Ukraine at the start of the conflict. The HR manager of our company encouraged and helped me evacuate them to Belgium. My father was an electronics engineer and is now working as a cleaner in a nursing home. He and his wife have since integrated well into Jabbeke. They have received so much support from strangers who have since become friends. I am extremely grateful for that.

Bruges is a beautiful city. Walking or cycling through it feels like a fairy tale, thanks to the swans, flowers, and top-notch art. I even enjoy the many tourists in the Market Square because they radiate so much happiness as they walk around. I am happy to pass on cultural experiences in my children's upbringing. Belgium also excels in providing good and affordable education.

I have been living in Belgium since 2011, with a two-year break. Belgians are generally polite and friendly. They are kind people who care about the feelings of others—even at work. Perhaps that is why companies here are so focused on employee well-being, offering flexible hours and many social benefits. The only downside is that three months of maternity leave is quite short compared to many other European countries.

"I always enjoy Coffee Mornings where we can unwind together and get to know new international expats or locals from Bruges who are looking to connect with newcomers. We get to exchange contacts and tips with each other and further help people navigate their way into building a new life here.

I have learned that you are best here as your unique self. Wealth, I have come to understand, can also be defined by the relationships you build, the wisdom you share, and the support you give and receive. That is why I am such a strong supporter of the community-building and bridge-building mission of the International House West Flanders."

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Mariela Ychante is working in Arteveldehogeschool as a Spanish lecturer.

"International House West Flanders has been a space to get to know other fellow newcomers in West Flanders. It is a great initiative to build a network and it is a door to a friendly community.  The activities have helped to get to know people that have recently arrived but also some other people that have been here for longer. This has been key to exchange experiences and advice. I am excited to see more things coming for a more inclusive and more newcomers-friendly West Flanders."

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Andrea Lowry is working as a Clinical Music Therapist, Teacher, Singer-Songwriter,and Performer. She has rich experiences from moving around in Europe for the past 20 years.

"IHWF - is refreshing place to connect with people. At the coffee mornings, you meet local people from all backgrounds and experiences. The thing I like most about these meetings is that they are not just fun and informative, I feel like I can actually contribute something. In our last gathering, I hosted two rounds of conversation that were set-up well with Tanya's suggested questions.

It was easy to share about my projects with VZW's in Brugge. I found out fascinating stories of those at my table and also realised that I had met one of them 3 years ago in Oostende! It really feels like a small world when you share a table for the Coffee Mornings at IHWF. "

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Jeff Alemdjou is working in CNH as an Embedded Software & Robotics Engineer.

"The vibe was very chill and friendly, and people were really genuine, too. It was a speed-dating event but for making friends. You get to talk to someone new every once in a while. It is a fun way to connect with a bunch of new people in a short time. International House also invited us to join their upcoming events!"

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Since July of last year, Salvador Fernando Rojas Olvera from Mexico has been living in our country with his wife. He works as a production engineer at Tremec in Zedelgem, which develops mechatronics and software & hardware for dual-clutch transmissions.

"I worked for Tremec in Mexico for six years. I had to prepare a lot of documents and translations to obtain a work permit for Belgium, as well as a visa to relocate. The entire process took almost six months.

The way of working in the company is largely the same. However, I enjoy the company culture at Tremec Belgium. They take good care of their employees here. It's nice to meet people outside of work and engage in extra activities with colleagues. As an expat, that is truly pleasant.

We are still adjusting to life here. Belgium operates differently than Mexico, but my colleagues provide me with the necessary advice. They are very approachable and helpful. My wife is studying Dutch to find a job here. I also plan to learn Dutch myself, as it's important for full integration.

What do I miss? 
Mexican food and, depending on the day, the weather (laughs). I can't really say what else I miss; it's still too early for that. Adjusting remains a process, but every beginning is difficult."