Spouse/ partner
Moving for someone else's job doesn't mean putting your own life on hold. This checklist walks you through it in five phases, from sorting your visa before you leave to building your own footing here.
How to read
this checklist
Need to do
A required step
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
Preparing to move (Before the move, while the partner's visa/permit is being sorted)
Need to do
A required step
Visa & documents
- Check whether you need your own family reunification visa, or whether you are included in your partner's application
- Confirm your passport is valid for your stay, renew if needed
- Gather your documents:
- passport
- marriage or partnership certificate
- proof of relationship
- birth certificates for any children - Check whether any documents need legalisation before you travel
- Gather certified copies of your diploma and professional certificates now - you will need them later for diploma recognition, and they are easier to arrange while still at home
Practical decisions
- Decide what happens to your job, contract or business back home
- Ask your employer whether working remotely from Belgium is possible
- Look into shipping or storing your belongings
- Arrange travel insurance or health cover for the period before you are registered in Belgium
- Check the cost of living and budget for your first few months
Housing
- Start your housing search early, alongside your partner
- Ask your partner's employer whether relocation support extends to accompanying partners
Getting a head start
- Start learning some basic Dutch before you arrive
- Read up on how Belgium works so the system feels less unfamiliar on arrival
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
- Compare cities of West Flanders against where your partner will be working
- Join IHWF's community before you land, so you already know some faces on arrival
Arrival and first formalities (First 1–2 weeks after arrival)
Need to do
A required step
Getting official
- Register your address at the gemeente (local council office)
- Apply for or collect your residence permit if you didn't receive it before travelling
- Collect your eID and set up itsme
- Check whether your residence permit gives you the right to work, or whether you need a separate work permit
Getting set up
- Sign your rental contract and finalise your move-in
- Open a Belgian bank account
Get a local SIM card or activate roaming - Get an overview of how the Belgian healthcare system works
- Register with a health insurance fund (mutuality)
- Find and register with a local GP
- Save your emergency contacts
If you have children
- Register them at the gemeente along with yourself
- Look into school registration if they'll be starting straight away
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
- Keep digital and physical copies of every stamped document from this phase - you'll need them again for your health insurance, your bank, and later for diploma recognition.
- Download a few useful apps and locate your nearest supermarket - small things that make daily life easier from day one.
Settling into life here (Roughly the first few months)
Need to do
A required step
Practical setup
- Convert or apply for a driving licence, if you plan to drive
- Set up your utilities, if this wasn't already arranged
- Sort out your internet and mobile plan
- Learn your local waste and recycling rules and collection schedule
- Arrange home insurance if you're renting
- Confirm your new address with your bank, your health insurance fund, and any other providers
Language and integration
- Check whether the civic integration programme applies to you - it's often required for dependant permit holders who aren't working
- Start Dutch lessons
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
- Look for ways to meet people and make friends, since there's no workplace or classroom doing it for you automatically
- Try a local sports club or hobby group
- Explore local culture and food, and the wider region on weekends
- Look into household help (service vouchers) if you want to free up time for job hunting or settling in
- It's normal to feel isolated or out of place at first - see adjusting to Belgian culture or mental health support if it helps
Building your own path (No fixed timing, whenever they're ready)
Need to do
A required step
Career and diploma
- Look into diploma recognition via NARIC-Vlaanderen if you plan to work in a regulated profession
- Check find a job for how to start your job search, and confirm whether you need a separate work permit before starting
- Prepare or update your CV for the Belgian job market
- Look out for upcoming job fairs in the region
Volunteering and connections
- Consider volunteering as a way to build local experience and make contacts
- Join a professional network in your field
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
- VDAB offers extra career coaching for highly skilled newcomers who don't yet speak Dutch fluently, even if you're not registered as unemployed
- Attend a coffee morning or networking event through IHWF
Look into Dutch courses geared toward your industry's vocabulary, once you've got the basics down - If employment isn't the right fit, look into working as a freelancer or self-employed as an alternative
Growing roots (ongoing, 1+ year)
Need to do
A required step
Permit and family
- Track your residence permit's expiry date and renewal window
- Check family reunification requirements if bringing over other family members later
- Keep up with your home country's own requirements, such as voting or tax filing
Career, if you've started working
- Understand your salary structure and benefits
- Check your tax filing obligations for your first full year
- Look into training leave and study credit for further development
Handy tip
Useful, but optional
Financial check-in
- Review your budget against what you're actually spending
- Keep an eye on exchange rates if you're transferring money home
- Build up your banking history in Belgium
- Check whether your insurance coverage still fits your needs
- Start thinking about long-term savings and pension options
Looking further ahead
- Think ahead about long-term housing
- Get involved locally: volunteering or a club
- Look into your voting rights as a resident
- Once you meet the residency requirement, look into applying for Belgian citizenship
Taking stock
- Check in on your Dutch language progress
- Reflect on your social connections and support network - this is often the biggest factor in how settled you feel
- Think about your own work/life balance, separate from your partner's
- Reflect on how settled home feels
Keep a copy
Open all four phases above first, so nothing gets left out. Then use your browser's print option (Ctrl+P on Windows, Cmd+P on Mac) and choose "Save as PDF" to keep this checklist for later.
